The days gone past in my life was harder to me than ever but made me to my final conclusion what I exactly want from my life. An Individual should know about his desires, wishes and destination and of course what way he will choose.
You must know what you are seeking or what seeks you. This is Philosophical diaries – some collections of my past experiences, some philosophies that hit me.
I, found myself when opened my eyes after my battle against a storm of thoughts, illusion, XL size ambitions and disappointments at the dilemma of a decision but what was good about that is the half victory as I had felt as when you got the way to grab your dreams with some extra points.
It’s true that the wind will not obey your direction always but an outline of planning should be in your mind which directs your way to reach where you want to be.
That’s Why Life should be a Journey, Instead!
Goals are meant to be set by any ambitious person to meet one’s dream but my philosophy says Life should be a journey, it must have stability and focus but as a journey whose destination be called death. I know this sounds crazy and flying overhead but let me open it. Imagine that day had come which you have dreamed of, of course with determination and hard work achieved your success but what about the next day.
“The language I have used may sound bit classy or vintage as these are excerpts from my philosophical diaries long ago. I have modified those excerpts and pieces into post that can guide you over and give you a fresh perspective to think, instrospect things from a unique angle”
Actually, Life is never about the aim you choose, the destination where you want to reach or achievements or not even hangover of success it’s always about the journey to achieve, about relationships, experience, fun, change, and self-realizations, it’s about people you meet, relations in which you bond, experience you get after committing bundles of mistakes, fun you feel, change you came across and self-realization in the fractions of time when you introspect that makes you, you. The next day of your achievement will not be peaceful, not excited, not interesting and that’s it because success or achievement(as the world consider it) or your desire fulfilled is just like a piece of cake, you eat you enjoy and it’s end and believe me you never remember taste of the cake. So, How Life should be? How does it suppose to be?
Its view is dependable on your vision and what I say regarding this is – it is liberating, interesting, moving, changing, coloring, sporting and loving. Anyone can come with a usual question that why somebody should bother to think about everything? But I understand and really have a great sympathy towards the patient.
Would you ever be able to apprehend that how profession, ambition, and Passion have their role play in our lives and where they intersect?
Getting back to our question, The life should be and it is, although you see it, like a flavor which always being loyal to its host. You acquire life as a flavor or essence and I promise the happiness, the delight, the peace, you get can be never like before. The taste of success and achievements are comparable nothing.
Decide what inside you has say for your trueself, Choose what truely represents you
You know we have taken things very incorrect and adjustable or according to our comfort. Mark your achievements in the journey of your life, you may not get it. I mean, Aim shouldn’t be like “ I want to be doctor or engineer or actor” or “I will be a businessman or somewhat profession” that’s not how it suppose to be, it should transform into your Ambition, not a profession. These sentences are of a profession but what if you say “ I will be the world’s best heart surgeon or I will open free and easy medical services to undeveloped areas or Will bring revolution in medicine industry” Han? Or “ One day, our country counts first in list of best engineers” or one may say “ My Machines or inventions will be milestone for technology worldwide” Or An aspiring and ambitious actor can say “ I will take the industry to my era or I will be milestone of millions of aspiring actor or “ As Actor, I will not just accomplish international awards but also be a true icon of inspiration ”. A businessman will say “ My company or startup will be most successful and innovative around” or something like that.
These quoted expressions very well explain what it suppose to be. Any ambitious person will raise his voice in this kind of tone which only states that Ambition works for society, for the country, and for humankind or it’s development, it doesn’t bound with self-centered mentality or money making oriented dreams. It’s free from Family based wishes but Profession is simply what you do to earn money and meet your needs although needs are never enough to satisfy one’s hunger of desires.
Ambition Brings Change! , Change to society, change to country and change to the world. It’s about to set new milestones of achievements not only for own sake but for to inspire and aspire others. The Man of Ambitions was a remembrance of greatness, the idol of dedication, determination and hard work and live beyond the ages and respire in heart of history.
There are bigger questions like what actually differentiate Ambition and Profession and How passion lead among all of them to the greater good. This shall be explained in next chapter of this article series. Your mind will be blown by more eye-openers!
Some people do their work, we call them professionals and when he does better we name them very professional and the rest best at work are countable in society as some of the tone of respect, some of the rich group and some successful ones but they still far from being great.
I know not everyone can be great and it doesn’t need to be but the mentality of being great makes a person live his life better and better with time.
There is a simple mathematics of life –
Ambition + Morality = Success
But Apart from Math, Do You know what is –
Success – Morality =?
It’s simply Over Ambitious. I know It’s not the right Mathematics but, Life is never 2+2=4. So, When We don’t have Morality in our DNA, Our soul got intoxicated as an ambition turned into over ambition and lacks the realization that how far he can bend to touch his success and time came he broke.
Morality, I call it Moral programming by which our mind and soul bind with. It tells us what is Right or Wrong. Morality preserve humanity, kindness, loyalty, self-respect, truth, conscience, self-belief, and other factors which make human a human.
A Morality deficiency man is corrupt and defective part of humanity till he changes or repaired. it may harm or affect others, society or humanity. The more he gets contaminated with ill ethics more he became dangerous, it dwells in the world as ill-treated object or pollutant or destructive human weapon. Neither the love is supplied to him/her nor accepted. Over ambition often ends to the destruction of dreams, thoughts or even human as A over ambitious person never own his gifts of life the God has given him and chase his illusioned dream which proves to be unbeneficial to everyone even to self. Respect to family, love from Family, Responsibility towards them, Duty of human and his principles, ethics, and morals are burnt in the fire his desire and I believe who can sell his soul, can’t be great.
Sacrifice should not be misunderstood by alienation and ignorance of love ones, sacrifice means the refusal of own happiness to meet someone’s smile.
Humans, being very smart and so try to vision the world by their glasses of comfort and easiness. They look what they want to, they hear what they want, they speak but without the tongue pain. So, what we being through is, Life should be a journey and one should be Ambitious with morality, not professional statues.
We should live dreams, not catch dreams. Like I have mentioned that Ambition + Morality = Success, but our starter question doubting about what is the success? It’s should be flavor or essence rather than a piece of cake. So, According to the driven philosophy I believe, Success is not a point or if you think it is then, don’t go for it, it is a line whose end point is death and there are infinite lines bisects a point , that point is your birth point and lines are your ways to live life what you make or what you choose because they are infinite . What I concluded is Life is not about to be successful, it’s about to learn from failures that mean failures are essentials as they are our moral teachers appointed by God. we fail, got sad but learn and move on then what is a success? Damn, I understand! To learn from failures, to rise above human, to live happy, to achieve dreams which make change or serve and delight people and you, to explore what life meant to be as you, to be great and live like legend with leaving trails as others path, to make people happy and serve humankind, and even to being simple man who loves his family and live for responsibilities with a effortless try to be and make happy under grace of God. Is nothing but exactly the success. A success which runs in the stream of livelihood but unidentified and ignored.
You are not born to be a money-making machine. You are more than that. Be Something else
How people can think God send you in the world to earn a lot of money and fine! to earn! but to spend just on you and your family’s lust of luxury.? He makes you on purpose to make money more than you deserve and misuse on the sake of your selfish means or even to flow evil practices, is that you think?. Are you going to left this world with all your assets?
Remember you born nude and you will be left from here in the same condition, don’t try to challenge the almighty as filling your pockets with bucks.
The more money, a person has rated as more successful, yup I agree, A man ability, talent, and work coins his financial position but is it everything?
But characters are important more than position, even more than brains.
The tendency or capability or emergence to change and to learn from failures makes a human successful.
Money is essential but the absence of money doesn’t mean the person is not successful but fighting with fact, a person is never being financially ungifted if he follows the right path and smart decisions. And the presence of Money more than a person needs will not multiply the chance of person’s immorality but how he turns his money that’s differentiate the person from the wrong one.
I don’t understand why money as in its singularity treated sometimes as an element of ego, destruction, temptation and often figured as a lot of misconceptions about it. I mean, Money is.. something everybody needs, everybody wants, societies across globe needs and myself too want enough money to finance my dreams and fulfill my needs. It just turns to different aspects as it comes to human hand and there is a point where money depends upon his owners will, wishes, and morality. Then it turn to sometimes black money, sometimes money of proud and ego, sometimes money of destruction and selfish needs, money of cruelty and temptation and so many names but the fact is money can construct lives, fulfill dreams, serve people, spread happiness and act as weapon of life provided how you accept it.
Decisions make your destiny, a wrong one can’t ruin you completely as by god’s mercy he always facilitates at least a chance to everyone to regain him but a wrong decision can make your path of success or we say a journey of success harder, complicate and disturbed. Decisions come after the test of your life and before the failure, as you learn about your failure and repair it and with soon effect you come to the point again where a decision is waiting for you. But it’s not complicated or depressing as I wrote it, it’s very simple and clear that live your life and make a decision what you want, what your conscience orders you, what your heart says and what your mind suggest you and rest believe on God and you. leave the things wherever they are. Everything is repairable and time heals you if it ever hurt.
There is a saying, “ Take care of small things, Big ones take care of themselves”.
I cannot define life or its even understand it and one should not calculate the hard facts of life and its procedures. Let things go and conditions will be spared.
I personally believe to just enjoy life and its creativity.
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